Sheesh. Where did I invoke the name of God? Abstinence works every time it's tried. Punto.

I will have to disagree with you that we should not teach children to ignore SOME natural urges.... They do pick and choose when to defacate....they should be very much in charge of when to choose other bodily functions as well. What earthly good is free will if it's not USED?

We don't encourage them to TAKE whatever they want just because it's there...... That would be theft and wrong.... why not encourage them to control their own bodily urges for their own future good?