08-10-2007, 10:59 PM
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Originally Posted by Catus Felidae  How do you explain so many abusive men?
Why is it the womans responsibility to be psychic and know that down the line the man who is treating her like a queen right now, will be beating her instead? Why isn't it the mans responsibility to recognize that he has a problem and fix it?
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I'm not excusing men in the slightest, and I've stated thate several times.
But it's the woman who ends up suffering. There are very few examples of men being abused by their wives, at least not physically (excluding being constantly nagged!)
Also, it's usually the woman who pushes the man into marriage and who enjoys the experience of the wedding. I never heard any guys discussing what colour the serviettes
should be at the reception!
Therefore the onus lies on the woman to be more careful when choosing a husband.
Why do you have such a need to blame the woman?
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See above
BTW...as far as 'man hating' goes, I've been quite happily married for almost 30 years, and at least half of my friends are men. That's just a tad difficult to do when you supposedly 'hate men'.
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I've been happily married for 25 years and have no reason to hate women!
Just for future reference, I judge no one on their sex, race, creed, religion, etc. I judge them individually on their personality and actions.
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