No, what's should be insultiing is for a woman to risk being an unmarried mother. At least show that she TRIED to create a better life for her offspring. If a man turns out to be a louse after the marriage, that's one thing. But to allow a man to impregnate her before showing any real commitment shows she was meant to be a victim. And that's coming from a person raised by a "single mother" who was never married.