08-13-2007, 05:14 PM
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Originally Posted by Catus Felidae How do you know that you would have had a 'better life' if your father had been in the picture? The very fact that he was enough of a louse to run out on his own child pretty much shows that he would have been a bad father to have around.
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Any child will have a better life with a loving mother and father in a stable home.
You seem to be agreeing that it's almost always the woman who is left holding the baby, and therefore the onus is on her to find a good father for her children.
This doesn't excuse the flaky men who get their girlfriends pregnant then disappear.
I'm not saying it's fair. It just underlines the way that Mother Nature works.
And had your mother waited to have a child with a man who she was sure would be a good father, you wouldn't be here. | His soul would still be here but in a different body. |