Originally Posted by mytmouse57

FX..
Like you, I believe in being honest with myself -- and with women -- about my need for physical attraction in a relationship. Although I don't think my "standards" are quite as strict as yours. My "ideal" woman has a compact, athletic frame, dark hair and dark eyes. But that doesn't mean that if I had the choice between a woman who looked like that and a tall, willowy blonde who matched me more personality-wise, that I would reject the blonde just because of looks. I would pick the better mental/spiritual match.

I had gone through a lot of "requirements" by the time I got to the one my wife. I"d gone through tall, big boobs, blondes, etc...I'd narrowed it down to actually the same type you just listed. My wife is 5'4' 100lbs Brown eyes/hair. Go figure.

Plus you have to consider, 27 is still pretty damn young. What will your wife look like at 47? 57? And we men have to accept that was we age, our tits will start to sag too...lol.. so is it fair to expect perfection from our women?

I don't expect perfection, but as I mentioned with avoiding the sun, skin can be "saved", small breast sag less than large ones, short women have less surface area to screw up than taller women. I'm still friends with a 6" girl I dated... let's just say I'm glad we didn't work out.

I think boob jobs are almost always more risky than they are worth.. and I do wonder how much of it is driven by women worrying about what men think of them.