The concessions must come from both sides, Knot. We must let them know through better means (I think using sucsessful Hispanics to show them the real "treasure" of America and how it can be achieved would be the best way to start).
The reason I use the terms depise and hatred is because that many of us do not realize that Speaking English was never before a condition required to immigrate- it was, and still is; just advantageous to do so.
Your last two points can be answered in one paragraph: When you speak of reward for doing something illegal, do we not include major corporations and companies here in America who are hiring illegal immigrants? They are not being rewarded substantially by reducing labor cost drastically. Do the very stockholders (the average John Q. Public) in such companies reap that reward
when stock prices increase on such a company? Now, as far as shipping jobs off to Mexico; who makes and endorses such decisions in say, the last company you can name that did so? Why was this decision made? Who has the power to regulate such decisions?
I've seen hatred in the form of posts that spoke of "shoot them in the streets"! Can that not be called hatred, when we advocate comitting capital crime in the furtherance of our own viewpoints?