This is such BS.
Every "fact" in that story is a pile of rubbish. For example.

$364 million in 14 years is nothing. Here's this years budget..
Military budget of the United States - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
$25 million a year is about the cost of 1.5 Apache helicopters, not including the pilot and armaments.

Them damn things fall out of the sky like leaves on a fall day.

41,000 potential recruits huh? Sounds good right? Bullshit. The number of recruits needed per year is almost 9 times that number. That's just pure rubbish.
Recruiting Statistics for FY 2006
Who gives a flying fart about a potential one time 41,000? Then what?

Those are but 2 of the "facts" that have been portrayed as "harm" DADT does to the military. Any real "harm" done is minute compared to the gargantuan entity that the military is. The "gay agenda" needs to really get over itself.