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Originally Posted by OhDear Well Pen and Fx, isn't that rather judgmental and narrow on your parts? And, no, I am not defending someone just cos I too have been married as many times. The name of this site is not Defending the Number of Times {you} were Married it is called Defending the Truth!!! The Truth is that Englishflower has bothered to make herself vulnerable by drawing from personal experience,for the sake of explaining the impact of social expectations. You guys nor I have any idea what kind of hopes Englishflower brought to the altar. Sadly she may have had the notion that her hopes had to defy her dreams. And so she tried and tried ... Please don't be critical of her. Be human. And consider the negative effects of injustice and intolerance. OhDear | I'm sorry OD, but marrying 4 men when you knew you were gay would be like me marrying 4 fat women when I knew I liked skinny ones. The relationships were doomed to failure from the beginning. It was unfair to the men that she married from a "love"s standpoint and a "time" one as well. To call my disposition "pissed" would be an extreme understatement. This is my new signature. |