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Originally Posted by fxashun  It seems you forget you are on a debate forum....You just pointed out that my observations were correct. You DID have issues that needed addressing before you got married. I'd be willing to place a bit of money on you having other abusive relationships other than the abusive marriages. I seem to remember something about you being a stripper as well. Typical... But Ali, this is a gay marriage thread, not a dissect Ali's life thread. So we really won't go there. I really DO like you so I'm not gonna go all "FX" on you here.
Until you can come up with something that proves an observation wrong, you might want to STFU though. Because honestly, your story comes out of the textbook. All you did in all that typing above is reinforce what I and my link already said.
"the problem may stem from the woman's family history"
Sounds like you and what Flower admitted to. I''m not speaking for OD. But I have my suspicions... |
What does my being an exotic dancer have to do with anything? Especially since you don't know WHEN I was one? Or the circumstances of why I became one?
Believe it or not, but when I was an exotic dancer, I was no longer in any abusive relationships. And I also had the title of 'ice queen' too, because I kept my distance from males period. And I didn't get into a relationship until I left that industry...And yes, it was short and over quickly, cause of issues he had. I stayed in the relationship just long enough to help the DEA and ATF bust him, his dealer, and his clients...I was an informant and working to gather information on the man and those he was involved in...And yes...at the end he was violent towards me...But it was a risk that we knew could happen because of the situation in the first place.
I still have a contract on me for doing so. But in my mind, it's worth it cause it helped society get rid of another drug dealer.
I was actually celebant for nearly 15 years after that. I didn't get involved with anyone until I met my husband.
See what I mean? There you are, judging me by what you THINK may apply to me. You think I was an exotic dancer, because of the abuse I'd suffered as a child or in my 2 marriages...You also seem to think that because of that, I was in multiple relationships outside of marriage in between...Both being untrue observations period on your part.
Last edited by AlicornsPrayer; 11-25-2007 at 11:45 AM.
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