what is marriage? its a pair of ppl making a life long commitment to start a family. some marriage's are open and involve multiple partners. although i perfer open marriage and having multiple sexual partners, i just dont see how religion gets to say who can get married. Its really only up to the people choosing to be in the relationship commitment. It should be based on their desicion and if the government has to recognize it for it to exist, than let it be the governments responsibility. And i dont know why you think you can judged another person based on their sexual preference as defective sex drive. Sexual preference is based on feeling and that is personalized truth that everyone must respect and accept unconditionaly. Feeling should be the authority, not ideas that are judgemental or condecending of others and that is exactly how the christian church has gone about its crusade of moral authority. When you look at the history of the Christian Church, its actually not so pretty but i'm not gonna get into that. I have accepted jesus so i am not antigod, i'm just anti religious. Religions teach you to doubt yourself and thats not what i'm about. i'm just trying to self discover free from the fearbased ideology of church and state. Let the gays and bisexuals get married, its normal to wanna be married, stop making it a priveledge for straight ppl only, and let ppl get married outside of religion if they want to.