Originally Posted by forester814

I have been feeling contemplative today, since it's my birthday and I'm home alone (for now).

You may want to consider that in some cases where there is no solution, the problem exists only in the way you are looking at the situation.

There is no problem with being lesbian, or deaf. These things just are.

How people react to these things, well, that may be an actual problem.

Give that a moment of thought before you respond.