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Originally Posted by garysher  Perhaps so. But isn't a marriage more important than a reputation?
When you make those marriage vows you are telling the world that you love this person more than any other - so shouldn't you be prepared to forgive them?
Surely love takes precedence over pride Joe? | Your answer is good; but it works both ways, Gary. Those vows also say that you would forsake all others- if I remember correctly from my own wedding.
But yes, love should take precedence over pride. But that shouldn't be a license for one to forsake those wedding vows he or she took. I know that I would have a hard time forgiving my wife if she were cheating; so why she she have an easy time forgiving me? This is hypothetical, of course- I'm already divorced. But it wasn't because of infidelity on either of our parts. |