Originally Posted by waitingtables

Since no two individuals are the same, a person confronted with this type of situation is the only one who can judge what is best for their lives. If a person is able to forgive then that's great for them, if not, then that's great too. I think that if the love is deep enough and the trust can be re-established, then more power to them for staying. I wouldn't judge them in either case, unless I felt the person was endangering themselves by staying.