Oh yeah, they're victims, Gary. Victims of their own inability to have their needs met by their partners, or to get enough ego strokes from people, or to break up with those who aren't making them happy, or just plain and simply their genetic material and their sexual organs. The vagina is a big, scary monster, I know, but it isn't victimising men, men are trying to get back into one, pretty much as soon as the day they came out of one.