Gary, haven't you heard the statement, "Judge not, lest ye be judged"? Or "He who judges, will be judged by his own measure?" I'm not copping out. If a spouse can forgive a cheating spouse, that's great. If not, then why would you want them to stay together and be miserable? It just seems like common sense to me. And I'm not sure if I think there is universal morals or not. I know that many claim to be moral, and then we see how quickly they are shown to be liars.