| Nope, he changed diapers and did everything with the kids just like I did. He just doesn't really care about housework or yardwork, which can be very frustrating. So, most of that is what I do. I wish he cared more about it, and I used to get much more upset about it then I do now. But my point was that I also work, I pay the bills and handle the budgeting, I handle all the stuff with the kids and his job is mostly just going to and from work. As I said, I am happy with our lives, but marriage that is lasting takes effort and work sometimes, and sacrifice. What he lacks in cleaning skills he does make up for in other ways that many men don't. |