In "my" case, I'm a stay at home father. I call my wife several times a day at her job on her own private extension. I pay the bills and see where every dollar that comes into and out of the home goes. The way our lifestyle is set up,there is no room for either of us to stray without the other knowing something is up. It's alittle confining at times, but it works for us.

Plus again, there is the trust. Trust in my spouse is like religion, it's blind faith. If you don't believe in the woman, you shouldn't be there. Your attitude toward relationships explains a lot.