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Old 07-09-2008, 07:16 AM   #62 (permalink)
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Originally Posted by BrittanyNicole View Post
Why does it matter who looks at you? If someone wants to look at me, whether it be a gay woman, straight man, transsexual, whoever and finds me attractive, great! Confidence booster! Just because I may not be attracted to that person doesn't mean there is a problem if they find me attractive. No harm done to me.
And if you want to be an exhibitionist to people that may or may not find you attractive, that's fine and dandy. Personally it took me a minute to get used to open showers on my first week of boot camp and that was with people that we all assumed were straight. I don't need external affirmation of how I look, I spent many years as a skinny happy nerd, I'm not a vain person. But I also know from my years of clubbing that I'm not ugly to gay men. Which IS cool, when I'm clothed.

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To me it's just like when I was young and my brother would stare at me and I'd yell at my mom to tell him to stop looking at me. It's petty.
Well tell that to the Marine Corps. Cause they spend a shitload of money building separate billeting quarters for WM's for what you deem pettiness.
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