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Originally Posted by BrittanyNicole Why does it matter who looks at you? If someone wants to look at me, whether it be a gay woman, straight man, transsexual, whoever and finds me attractive, great! Confidence booster! Just because I may not be attracted to that person doesn't mean there is a problem if they find me attractive. No harm done to me. | And if you want to be an exhibitionist to people that may or may not find you attractive, that's fine and dandy. Personally it took me a minute to get used to open showers on my first week of boot camp and that was with people that we all assumed were straight. I don't need external affirmation of how I look, I spent many years as a skinny happy nerd, I'm not a vain person. But I also know from my years of clubbing that I'm not ugly to gay men. Which IS cool, when I'm clothed. Quote: |
To me it's just like when I was young and my brother would stare at me and I'd yell at my mom to tell him to stop looking at me. It's petty.
| Well tell that to the Marine Corps. Cause they spend a shitload of money building separate billeting quarters for WM's for what you deem pettiness. This is my new signature. |