I'm not telling you what "Christians are".
And the only "bullshit" I'm going to use is the Bible...
It's all the reference that need be used in such discussions, because I'm not telling you how to be a Christian...
Your "Jesus" is...


Mat 5:22 But I say unto you, That whosoever is angry with his brother without a cause shall be in danger of the judgment: and whosoever shall say to his brother, Raca, shall be in danger of the council: but whosoever shall say, Thou fool, shall be in danger of hell fire.


Mat 5:38 Ye have heard that it hath been said, An eye for an eye, and a tooth for a tooth:
Mat 5:39 But I say unto you, That ye resist not evil: but whosoever shall smite thee on thy right cheek, turn to him the other also.
Mat 5:40 And if any man will sue thee at the law, and take away thy coat, let him have [thy] cloke also.
Mat 5:41 And whosoever shall compel thee to go a mile, go with him twain.
Mat 5:42 Give to him that asketh thee, and from him that would borrow of thee turn not thou away.
Mat 5:43 Ye have heard that it hath been said, Thou shalt love thy neighbour, and hate thine enemy.
Mat 5:44 But I say unto you, Love your enemies, bless them that curse you, do good to them that hate you, and pray for them which despitefully use you, and persecute you;


And I find some irony in the fact that you dislike being told by non-Christians how "Christians" are, yet you pretend to tell gay people how gay people are. Including telling gay people that, despite their statements to the contrary, they chose to be gay...

But please. Continue to show your Christian "love" for your fellow man.