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Old 01-19-2007, 01:13 AM   #41 (permalink)
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Jaxian, listen to this! First look at what you wrote here:
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"You don't agree? But why not? Sexual abuse does not alter the victim's life in any fashion. What I mean is, the victim is still physically able to go to school, to go to work, to speak to others, and to engage in any freedom he or she desires. The entirety of the damage caused by sexual abuse is mental."

First the entirety of the damage may not be limited to the mental damage. There are injuries and possible spread of STD's, and also pregnancy to possibly contend with...

And how can you even dare to recognize the mental damage that a victim sustains in such a crime, and then go on to say that they can go to school, work, talk to whoever, have freedoms to do what they want??? Wrong!
Try going to school when you are scared and having anxiety attacks. Or to work. Or if it is your child, try to carry on like life as usual.
Sexual abuse tears up hearts, homes, causes people to relocate, challenges their school performance, work performance, causes then a financial hardship...makes many suicidal...have nightmares, turn to drugs and alcohol...
And one victim is multiplied by the other victims, family members that must also try to pick up the pieces of a life that has been devastated.

I am too tired and do not have the energy to post more, but Jaxian, I have not ever felt a need to post such a vigorous statement about someone that I disagreed with til tonight, but I must say it to you: You have your ***modeartor edited***!

OD

Last edited by OhDear; 01-19-2007 at 01:54 AM. Reason: insulting another member
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