Oh well i suppose we should let A 1 romp around a little bit. He needs to vent a lot of anger.
You see there are two ways to deal with life. One is to accept one's rights and duties and try to figure what one SELF can do and get along with it without anger and bitterness. A-1 has chosen the other. That particular method transfers all blame to other party/parties which must be DESTROYED and/or SUBDUED.
I'm sorry A1 because i believe some really crappy and unfair things have happened in your life.. But anger, blame and destruction will solve nothing.
The purpose of accountability is not PUNISHMENT, but rather KNOWLEDGE. But it is not possible to gain knowledge as long as you keep focusing on "punishing those responsible".
Try living without prejudice, fear and anger towards those you think do you wrong. It makes you more effective in your life. Love for all, Hatred for none |