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Abortion How do you feel about abortion? Are you pro-choice or pro-life? Defend your views on abortion in this forum.

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Old 01-15-2008, 02:26 PM   #131 (permalink)
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Now you're moving the goalposts. We were discussing a law giving the father of the embryo 'veto' power regarding an abortion. I've seen many people suggest this law, but not ONE of them has any idea how to do it.

My appointment this morning was with the prosecuting attorney to deal with a problem regarding a former tenant. My second step in handling this problem is to have my attorney send her a letter. If it weren't for the fact that I get most legal work done free, it would cost me between 1 and 2 hundred dollars to get that letter sent.

All the disclosures you talk about filing, cost money. The more steps, the more money. The higher up it goes, the more it costs. The taxpayers are going to have to pay the tab for the court staff, the judges and the building.

You should see the bankruptcy court building in Little Rock. There's the mahogany court room, the Italian marble court room, and the third court room has a fresco style ceiling trimmed with 24 carat gold paint. The building itself is a complete and total waste of taxpayer money. Toss in the judges salaries of between 150 and 200 thousand a year, the staff salary and just the cost of doing business, and you're talking about a LOT of taxpayer money.

When the costs are added up, I doubt the average citizen is going to be willing to fork over that kind of tax increase in order to assist Bubba to force Lurline into popping out his kid.
Still probably far less than what universal health care costs though.
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Old 01-15-2008, 06:56 PM   #132 (permalink)
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If we are going to maintain the legal status of abortion, then I believe we need to be willing to pay the cost.

And perhaps some cases would not even be able to come to a hearing. If we placed restrictions on it, not making it so easy as a mere back-up plan for contraception that was not sought in advance of the sex act.

Perhaps we could rule out abortion in so very many cases, that the courts would not be so busied as one supposes.

For example a financial disclosure by both parents be filed to prove hardship IF the baby is born.

Certain stated reasons, health, or if there is a history of mental health issues, or other factors...

Certainly age could be another factor. Marital status.

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That is SO insulting to women. Women are perfectly capable of deciding for themselves whether they can afford a child, whether they have health issues, genetic issues, or any other issues that would affect good parenting. In fact, women are far more capable of making such decisions for themselves than ANY branch of government. Setting up such barriers to getting an abortion would have the same effect as banning it entirely, it would cause a huge number of illegal abortions.
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Old 01-15-2008, 07:05 PM   #133 (permalink)
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That is SO insulting to women. Women are perfectly capable of deciding for themselves whether they can afford a child, whether they have health issues, genetic issues, or any other issues that would affect good parenting. In fact, women are far more capable of making such decisions for themselves than ANY branch of government. Setting up such barriers to getting an abortion would have the same effect as banning it entirely, it would cause a huge number of illegal abortions.
Are you saying that men are NOT equally insulted if a woman alone can choose what becomes of a baby that he also contributed DNA to conceive?

The woman seems to not decide for {herself} to hop in the sack, though?

Yes, a huge number of illegal abortions, but far less abortions than presently being done.

All I am standing up for at this point is not the pro-life camp, but the father's rights.

With responsibility comes rights and with rights come responsibility.
And you cannot divide the rights and responsibilities between the sexes when another life has been conceived.

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Are you saying that men are NOT equally insulted if a woman alone can choose what becomes of a baby that he also contributed DNA to conceive?
When a man's body is affected by the pregnancy/childbirth, he can decide. No man is entitled to a child, and no woman is obligated to provide one for someone else.

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The woman seems to not decide for {herself} to hop in the sack, though?
This certainly sounds like typical anti-choice rhetoric. The woman is to "blame" and therefore she must suffer consequences. I don't think a baby should be a "consequence."


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Yes, a huge number of illegal abortions, but far less abortions than presently being done.
So you are willing to see women die from unsafe abortions in order to reduce the number performed? That is, assuming this elaborate legal maneuver would actually reduce the number. If you reduce the number of abortions but increase the number of unwanted children, what have you gained?

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All I am standing up for at this point is not the pro-life camp, but the father's rights.
Fathers simply cannot have rights at the expense of the mother.

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With responsibility comes rights and with rights come responsibility.
And you cannot divide the rights and responsibilities between the sexes when another life has been conceived.

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For pregnancy and childbirth the rights and responsibilities have already been assigned. Men have no rights and responsibilities before a child is BORN.
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Old 01-15-2008, 08:52 PM   #135 (permalink)
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When a man's body is affected by the pregnancy/childbirth, he can decide. No man is entitled to a child, and no woman is obligated to provide one for someone else.



This certainly sounds like typical anti-choice rhetoric. The woman is to "blame" and therefore she must suffer consequences. I don't think a baby should be a "consequence."




So you are willing to see women die from unsafe abortions in order to reduce the number performed? That is, assuming this elaborate legal maneuver would actually reduce the number. If you reduce the number of abortions but increase the number of unwanted children, what have you gained?



Fathers simply cannot have rights at the expense of the mother.




For pregnancy and childbirth the rights and responsibilities have already been assigned. Men have no rights and responsibilities before a child is BORN.
Hmmm, OK Grannie. You have given me much to think about. I will tell you what all I end up believing after I do some more thinking now. Thank you.

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Hmmm, OK Grannie. You have given me much to think about. I will tell you what all I end up believing after I do some more thinking now. Thank you.

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Old 01-15-2008, 10:43 PM   #137 (permalink)
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Thinking is a good thing.
That especially true right before a woman allows a man to ejaculate into her.
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Of course the ejacualting man shares n o responsiblity unless he decides that he wants to. Catus, OKgrannie, you are two wonderful voices of reason here. A woman can decide on her own what is the best choice. We don't need a court, a daddy, an uncle, brither, pastor or priest to tell us what is right for our own lives. We might seek out advice, but we can decide for ourselves. Abortion was not illegal in theis country until the late 19th century, and the reason it became illegal is that women were dying of sepsis and or being maimed. It was to protect the woman, not the fetus.

And to answer your question garysher, men and women are not reproductively equal. Never will be.
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Of course the ejacualting man shares n o responsiblity unless he decides that he wants to. Catus, OKgrannie, you are two wonderful voices of reason here. A woman can decide on her own what is the best choice. We don't need a court, a daddy, an uncle, brither, pastor or priest to tell us what is right for our own lives. We might seek out advice, but we can decide for ourselves. Abortion was not illegal in theis country until the late 19th century, and the reason it became illegal is that women were dying of sepsis and or being maimed. It was to protect the woman, not the fetus.

And to answer your question garysher, men and women are not reproductively equal. Never will be.
We all know that men and women are not reproductively equal. And it seems women should think a bit longer before they crack them thighs. Guys can screw their hand, each other, someone's mouth etc. It'll all end the same. If a woman wants to be the equivalent of a closest towel on the bathroom floor, they shouldn't be allowed to kill the innocent outcome of that bad decision. You just admitted they have a much higher level of responsibility in that decision.
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That especially true right before a woman allows a man to ejaculate into her.
I hear that!

To me the idea that a woman can have the wherewithal to realize that she can abort a baby upon learning she is pregnant, means she could have had the wherewithal to know how babies are made.

This idea that a woman has the right to her own body is only reasonable to a point. What of the fact that another body is developing inside her? When does that body earn rights?

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