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Old 10-11-2008, 01:14 PM   #351 (permalink)
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That was an outstanding post, waitingtables!

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Old 10-13-2008, 10:35 AM   #352 (permalink)
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According to your first post, you see no need for abortion unless the mother will die. Problem is: You can't know which mothers will die and which won't. Until you can predict that with 100% accuracy, you don't qualify to decide who can abort and who can't.

So then mothers shouldn't have children?


You state there is 'no need' for abortion in cases of rape because the fetus is 'innocent'. You totally fail to take into consideration the mother. I'm sure that some women can psychologically handle gestating the child of their rapist. I'm also sure that many cannot. Who are you to decide for them?


I do consider the mother; but why blame the child for the rapist's act?


As far as disabled goes, I also worked with disabled adults for a few years. I do not know how you 'know' that you have never met one who "doesn't wish they had never been born' simply because many of them could not comprehend the question any more than a person of average IQ can comprehend quantum physics.

Its not because they can't; its because they won't comprehend the question.
Look into the eyes of a retarded, severely retarded, child and see the joy they have when they play or discover something new.
Retarded/developmentally challenged people are some of the nicest, happiest people I know; maybe if you spent some time with them you would 'know' that I know that you know that I know.


After years of working with these children of a lesser god, I strongly feel that the question is not 'do we have the right to abort', but is in fact, 'do we have the right NOT to abort'. What gives Jane Doe the right to decide that someone else will live an inferior life that has no potential and is fraught with suffering.
Worst case scenario, same old mantra. Who are you to decide that someone will live an inferior life, without potential, and must suffer. If thats the case; if, based on your logic and reasoning, under privileged people are better off aborted; then you've justified the Holocaust, Rwandan and Armenian genocides, as well as Darfur and any other ethnic cleansing where a group saw another as inferior, or whatever. According to your logic, we should humanely abort every child born outside of privilege... as long as women can have this right.
Old 10-13-2008, 10:45 AM   #353 (permalink)
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The baby doesn't have a life yet, it's life is dependent on it's development in the womb. And a first trimester fetus could not live outside it's mother's body if it were removed.

A two DAY old baby will not live very long outside the womb. Neither will a two month old, or even a two year old.

It has nothing to do with Islam at all. A mother is a mother no matter what religion you are. I simply think that it is apparent to me that all of those religions have done an awful lot of damage to the mother and to women in general. And that they are all off balance in regards to the human condition. And that it doesn't have to be that way. And that I picked up from your posts that you might have a problem with women because of your adherence to the literal translation of the Bible.

I don't have any problems with women. Based on your posts, you obviously have a problem with all men. Did a man hurt you? A Christian man? You have so much hatred and anger towards Christianity, especially the men. Why?

Yes, even more than you know. There are some women who have been completely removed or been altered into something other than what they truly were. And none of them in the Bible are given equal position as men, because that is how that society believed it should be. And that is okay for 2000 years ago, but not any longer. To use the Biblical women as a defence for religious misogyny is not furthering your point.

The Bible builds tells me that men and women are equal; they are just different. It seems to me that you want to elevate women above the status of men. The Bible tells me that men and women complete each other, but you state that men and women should compete with each other.

My argument is not against women, or their role in society; yet you keep going back to that point.


The Supreme Court has decided that in the case of abortion the state has the right to set the limit for how long a woman has to have an abortion. In most states it is up until 24 weeks. I think that is too long, and that it should be restricted to the first trimester unless the health of the mother is at stake.


No, not mentally either. You are not a woman, and cannot mentally relate to what it is to be a woman, or a mother. No matter how much you think you can.
But I am capable of feeling and emotion; emotions are not exclusively for women. My feelings tell me that we should not kill. This includes babies, both in and out of the womb.
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But I am capable of feeling and emotion; emotions are not exclusively for women.
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My feelings tell me that we should not kill. This includes babies, both in and out of the womb.
Again, a fetus is not a baby - not at that stage of development. A woman should never be forced to breed. I agree we should make efforts to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies. That only makes sense. However forced gestation is NOT the answer, especially in a country that claims it's citizens are free.

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Old 10-13-2008, 12:32 PM   #356 (permalink)
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So then mothers shouldn't have children?


That's totally up to them.

I do consider the mother; but why blame the child for the rapist's act?


Obviously you don't. You also don't know very much about the psychological damage done to a rape victim. Or you just don't like women.


Its not because they can't; its because they won't comprehend the question.

A thirty year old woman with the intellectual development of a two year old simply cannot comprehend the question.

Look into the eyes of a retarded, severely retarded, child and see the joy they have when they play or discover something new.

I have. I've seen a fifty five year old man break into tears and literally jump up and down with joy at finally learning to tie his shoe laces. I've also seen an eleven year old with no working brain lie in a hospital bed hooked up to machines for his entire life.

Retarded/developmentally challenged people are some of the nicest, happiest people I know; maybe if you spent some time with them you would 'know' that I know that you know that I know.


I'm guessing from your posts that you worked at a camp, or training facility for the mentally challenged. I'm guessing that those you worked with were the 'higher level' disabled. Those capable of learning simple tasks and functioning to a point in the 'real world'.

I'm guessing you've never even seen the 'back rooms'.



Worst case scenario, same old mantra. Who are you to decide that someone will live an inferior life, without potential, and must suffer. If thats the case; if, based on your logic and reasoning, under privileged people are better off aborted; then you've justified the Holocaust, Rwandan and Armenian genocides, as well as Darfur and any other ethnic cleansing where a group saw another as inferior, or whatever. According to your logic, we should humanely abort every child born outside of privilege... as long as women can have this right.
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Old 10-14-2008, 12:52 PM   #357 (permalink)
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A two DAY old baby will not live very long outside the womb. Neither will a two month old, or even a two year old.
Of course, if it isn't cared for! That is not what I meant and it doesn't speak to the point. A two day old, two month old, two year old child can survive outside of the mother's womb without dying because it's system isn't too immature to be outside of the womb. A first trimester fetus will die outside of the womb no matter how much care and nurturing and medical assistence it recieves, because it hasn't sufficiently developed the necessary things for survival yet.

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I don't have any problems with women. Based on your posts, you obviously have a problem with all men. Did a man hurt you? A Christian man? You have so much hatred and anger towards Christianity, especially the men. Why?
Well, no I haven't been hurt by Christian men, I am railing against a society and a system that was put into place by men in order to keep all the power for themselves and attempt to be God over the women. That is enough to piss me off and make me point out the truth behind their motivations. I don't hate men, I hate male dominated, patriarchal society and it's unnatural systems that end up throwing society into all kinds of terrible situations. And I also hate cover ups and lies.

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The Bible builds tells me that men and women are equal; they are just different. It seems to me that you want to elevate women above the status of men. The Bible tells me that men and women complete each other, but you state that men and women should compete with each other.

My argument is not against women, or their role in society; yet you keep going back to that point.
Wrong, wrong, wrong again. The Bible never says that women are equal to men, and I am about equality and linking in a partnership society, not a heirarchical, dominating fashion. Your insecurities about women make you think that a woman standing up for her rights and her nature are competing with men or trying to dominate them. Sorry, that isn't the way I fell or see things.

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But I am capable of feeling and emotion; emotions are not exclusively for women. My feelings tell me that we should not kill. This includes babies, both in and out of the womb.
Yes, I know that you are capable of feeling and emotion. But that still does not equate with actual experience in a situation. You will never know what is involved in mothering a child, never. I'm sorry if that seems unfair, but it is the truth.
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Old 10-15-2008, 11:24 PM   #358 (permalink)
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Of course, if it isn't cared for! That is not what I meant and it doesn't speak to the point. A two day old, two month old, two year old child can survive outside of the mother's womb without dying because it's system isn't too immature to be outside of the womb. A first trimester fetus will die outside of the womb no matter how much care and nurturing and medical assistence it recieves, because it hasn't sufficiently developed the necessary things for survival yet.
First let me congratulate you on learning how to use the quote feature.

And secondly, the womb IS the care that a fetus needs. It was designed to provide just the environment that a developing mammalian entity requires at the point in its development. It's really common sense. Even if you don't believe an individual life starts at conception, pretending that it starts when "the fetus can survive on it's own" is rather disingenuous since young mammals still need assistance to live well after birth. Even if gestated to term.
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And secondly, the womb IS the care that a fetus needs. It was designed to provide just the environment that a developing mammalian entity requires at the point in its development. It's really common sense. Even if you don't believe an individual life starts at conception, pretending that it starts when "the fetus can survive on it's own" is rather disingenuous since young mammals still need assistance to live well after birth. Even if gestated to term.

The mother's womb is what is needed, and if the mother doesn't wish to gestate the developing embryo, she doesn't have to. The womb is not public or government property, and the woman in possession of the womb, doesn't have to use it to grow babies if she chooses not to. We are not required to share our private information to the public so that the public can rest assured that women don't have abortions. We are Constitutionally protected from that kind of control.

And when we use the argument that a first trimester fetus can't survive on it's own outside of the womb, we don't mean that it can survive without care and food. We mean that it cannot physically live no matter the life saving efforts made because it isn't developed enough even with extraordinary measures by the medical profession, to live. It really isn't that hard to understand.
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This is true.

Again, a fetus is not a baby - not at that stage of development. A woman should never be forced to breed. I agree we should make efforts to reduce the number of unwanted pregnancies. That only makes sense. However forced gestation is NOT the answer, especially in a country that claims it's citizens are free.
A fetus is a baby. Women should not be forced to breed, nor should they be allowed to kill.
There are plenty of people who will adopt babies; instead of killing why not put up for adoption?
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