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Old 11-11-2007, 04:43 PM   #11 (permalink)
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just wait, forester

some bright bulb is going to say something like gays aren't tolerant of those who hate them. LOL

kinda like asking blacks to be "tolerant" of racists and Jews to be "tolerant" of anti-semites

you know darned well this circular argument will get started here - I will lay odds!

The examples you give demonstrate your own intolerance!

It would be more accurate to compare blacks who say affirmative action doesn't go far enough.

Or that any criticism of Israel is by definition hateful and "anti-semitic".

If the homosexual community want to be accepted they will never achieve it by assuming that everyone else has it wrong and demanding that the other 95% of society bend to their views.

Homosexual intolerance and intransigence begins with the ignore feature.
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Old 11-11-2007, 04:48 PM   #12 (permalink)
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I don't see that either, but no one is asking them to do so. I work with a couple of people who act in ways I find personally morally troublesome, but I wouldn't want to see them lose their jobs becaose of it. I just act professionally with them, get my work done, and choose not to associate with them any more than I have to.

As I said before, if you work for a large company without the actual owner on premises, that quite fine. But if the owner of the business is the one doing the actual hiring and firing, it should be up to him/her whether or not he hires a gay person in the first place.

You are right. These uncomfortable people you mention shouldn't change for that one person. They should change for themselves, because tolerance is a good thing for everyone.

It may be a good thing, but nowhere is it illegal to be a racist bastard. And if a racist, woman hating, Jew despising bastard wants to own a business and surround himself with others that agree with him, he should be able to. He should not be forced to "tolerate" something he doesn't want to.


Because, when they eventually run across that one person, or some other person, in a work situation or some other situation, they will already be equipped to coexist comfortably, rendering this whole topic a non-issue.

Why? In some parts of the country, there's no need to force someone to change like that. Like I said before, if a man owns a business and doesn't want to hire women or minorities, it's easy for him just not to do so. But "homosexual" ain't written on someone's forehead. And I'm sure you just can't out and ask someone, "Hey boy, Is you some kinda queer?".


The idea that the continued comfort of intolerant people is more worthy of protection than a person's continued secure employment/livelihood is one that I not only can't accept, but one that I can't figure out how any decent person could approve of.
Well, IMHO it's part of freedom that you have the right to be free to be a racist asshole if you can find an environment that accepts you. If a racist woman hating Jew despiser can surround himself with others that he feels comfortable around in a place of business and make it run smoothly, he should have the right to make sure his place of business remains a place where he can be comfortable. It's his business and it's not illegal to "be" racist.
It seems gay people are all about "freedom" until someone tries to express their "freedom" and say that they don't want to be around gay people. Be it religious or other reasons. Then all of a sudden they are bigots or worse. I don't see why any decent gay person can't fathom that some people just don't want to be associated with them and just leave them alone.
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Well, IMHO it's part of freedom that you have the right to be free to be a racist asshole if you can find an environment that accepts you.

I agree with you, including your IF.
One such environment where this is not acceptable is the workplace.

It's his business and it's not illegal to "be" racist.

No, but it is illegal to use racist hiring and firing practices.

It seems gay people are all about "freedom" until someone tries to express their "freedom" and say that they don't want to be around gay people. Be it religious or other reasons. Then all of a sudden they are bigots or worse.

Ah, but we just agreed that people are free to be bigots.

I'm OK with people saying it all they like. But they shouldn't be able to fire me over it. Freedom of expression is good, freedom to fire people without just cause is not. Big, big difference.

I don't see why any decent gay person can't fathom that some people just don't want to be associated with them and just leave them alone.
No gay person, decent or otherwise, has trouble fathoming it, since we are confronted by that sentiment literally every single day.

But as I said previously, I work with a couple of people who act in ways I find personally morally troublesome. I don't want to associate with them, but I have to, in order to do my work. And I certainly wouldn't want to see them lose their jobs because of it.

I just act professionally with them, get my work done, and choose not to associate with them any more than I have to, to get my job done.

I'd like to think that your racist woman hating Jew despiser could bring himself do the same thing, but clearly, he can't... and that's why we have laws like ENDA.
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some bright bulb is going to say something like gays aren't tolerant of those who hate them. LOL
I don't think anyone should be tolerant of hatred. But there is a big difference between not accepting hatred and expressing hatred yourself.

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you know darned well this circular argument will get started here - I will lay odds!
If someone wants to play semantic games instead of debating the actual issue, let them. I don't play the circular argument game any more.
Old 11-11-2007, 09:50 PM   #15 (permalink)
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No gay person, decent or otherwise, has trouble fathoming it, since we are confronted by that sentiment literally every single day.

But as I said previously, I work with a couple of people who act in ways I find personally morally troublesome. I don't want to associate with them, but I have to, in order to do my work. And I certainly wouldn't want to see them lose their jobs because of it.

I just act professionally with them, get my work done, and choose not to associate with them any more than I have to, to get my job done.

I'd like to think that your racist woman hating Jew despiser could bring himself do the same thing, but clearly, he can't... and that's why we have laws like ENDA.
That's just it, I think if the person owns the business, it's HIS workplace and I don't have a problem with him/her if all he wants to hire is attractive 18 year old hotties. That's his business. In a corporate setting, there are different rules, but those usually have to be in writing anyway since companies have to protect themselves from employees and managers who may not have direct supervision.

That's the way it is in writing, but if a person doesn't want to hire any black people in the first place, it's pretty easy to just not hire any black people or women in the first place.

I think a person who owns a business should be able to decide who he is hiring. If "gay" is on his personal list of people he doesn't want in his company, it's a person's right not to HAVE to hire one in his personal business. Again, a corporate situation is different.

Black people also come across racist attitudes at times. Except we can't turn white. Gay isn't written across a homosexual's forehead.

I understand that you might work with someone who you might not agree with, but if you owed the company, you should have the right to get rid of that person. That is my point. A hyper religious business owner shouldn't be forced to hire someone who is an militant atheist.

Actually though, I'm gonna read this ENDA bill, because I bet this whole exchange is pointless. Like I said in my first post, even the racial and gander rules only apply after a business has a certain number of employees. My ex's dad only hired white men to work for him under those rules. The same probably applies here.

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Old 11-11-2007, 09:59 PM   #16 (permalink)
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Employment Non-Discrimination Act - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
"The bill exempts small businesses, religious organizations and the military. Religious businesses (such as Christian book stores) are not exempted."
Never mind. Since most larger corporations already have protections built in, I doubt this bill will make much difference. Good luck.
Old 11-12-2007, 01:19 AM   #17 (permalink)
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If someone wants to play semantic games instead of debating the actual issue, let them. I don't play the circular argument game any more.
Translation: I avoid debating with people who systematically dismantle all my favourite arguments!
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This post began with hatred already. The initial post states, The bigot spin. Immediately dismissing the argument of the free exercise of religion coupled with the right of free association guaranteed within the 1st Amendment. Whether you like it or not it is a legitimate argument.

Congress is seeking to establish for homosexuals, special rights, for according to the SC they are not qualified for civil rights. In order to be a civil right, there must first be an immutable characteristic, then there must be a showing of being economically disadvantaged, politically powerless and have shown a history of discrimination. Unfortunately homosexuals, bisexuals and even transgenders fail to qualify in any one of those categories.

Despite all the arguments to the contrary, no scientific study has ever shown that homosexuality, bisexuality or transgenderism has a genetic inheritance, instead studies have shown that it is environmental, meaning it is a lifestyle choice. Now to combat this idea of lifestyle, advocates are claiming it is an identity characteristic. In other words it makes me who I am. Unfortunately, if this is accepted for homosexuals as a legitimate argument, then it must be accepted by all groups, religious, liberal, conservative, you name it, all go to make up a persons identity.

I have no problem with government applying fair hiring practices on employers, or for that matter, government sponsored business. However, when government tries to force private business to hire those that for personal, religious, or a variety of other reasons, then we have lost a very big part of our liberty.

This bill will be a lawyers dream. While it includes a narrowly tailored exemption for religious institutions, it does not cover other religious businesses. Like one of the other posts mentions, the Christian Book Store, or even better as Al Gore would like, the Boy Scouts.

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In general, people tend to hire people who are like themselves. It's just human nature.

And I think you'll have a hard time convincing anyone running a small business to invest in "diversity sensitivity training" to try and convince their employees to put up with people they have a moral disagreement with.

Running a business is already hard enough!

But it's interesting you would consider brainwashing in this scenario, but reject therapy as a possible cure for homosexuality?
All diversity training does for most people is make them even more resentful of people they have a moral disagreement with. You can't force people to embrace other people they are uncomforable with. The only thing businesses can reasonably expect to accomplish is for employees to work together without harassment.
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No gay person, decent or otherwise, has trouble fathoming it, since we are confronted by that sentiment literally every single day.

But as I said previously, I work with a couple of people who act in ways I find personally morally troublesome. I don't want to associate with them, but I have to, in order to do my work. And I certainly wouldn't want to see them lose their jobs because of it.

I just act professionally with them, get my work done, and choose not to associate with them any more than I have to, to get my job done.

I'd like to think that your racist woman hating Jew despiser could bring himself do the same thing, but clearly, he can't... and that's why we have laws like ENDA.
Hey Cyn, I'd hire you anyday over some beautiful, but stuck-up, heterosexual bitch. (not saying that YOU aren't beautiful)

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