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Old 11-20-2007, 07:21 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Oh, you were expressing ethical relativism (morality is an agreed upon set of rules); I was just asking you if it was possible that a minority of people can hold a moral truth against others.



I actually don't see that much of a difference at all; it's just that one was taken to the extreme. Both acts of discrimination are fueled by a sense of detest against the said group. That is, homophobia and racism against Indians are very similar in that, the racist (or homophobe) uses differences (real or imagined) in the racist's favor and at the expense of the victim, by assigning value to those differences in order to dehumanize the victim and justify oppression.

You see these differences pointed out by homophobes all the time (and usually they're imagined); including association of AIDS with gays, 'unnatural detestableness', dirty, immoral, unchristian, etc. Then of course the homophobe always assigns value to these differences (by stressing their 'backwardness' and moral inferiority) in order to justify the homophobe's injustice. Incidentally, such associations I listed above have been used in past and present racism against blacks and others in attempting to rationalize oppression.
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Old 11-20-2007, 07:23 AM   #22 (permalink)
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Irrelevant, both of these strawman examples are potentially infringing onto others; there's nothing harmful to others when two consenting adults of the same sex want to love each other and enjoy equality under the law.
and, once again, BRAVO!!!

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And I don't consider it oppressive to ban public nudity, however, there is no reason to ban it in private areas. And I do feel that banning prostitution is oppressive to the women who decide to be prostitutes. There should be legalised prostitution, taxes paid on it, and medical care required.
Actually, these things are not banned - merely regulated. There are places where public nudity, prostitution (and gambling, for that matter) are perfectly legal. They're simply regulated.

I personally believe they're regulated too strictly - but, nonetheless, there are places in this country where they are perfectly legal.
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Old 11-20-2007, 08:29 AM   #24 (permalink)
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It's quite simple. A Christian is simply defined as someone who believes in Christ.

If you are going to start calling anyone who sins by Biblical definition not a Christian, then there are no Christians. Even "Gary" will tell you that we are all sinners.
Well that's fine then. But you'd better avoid the text that "Christians" base their religion on. Because it specifically and repeatedly forbids activity that defines homosexuality.

And we may all have sinned. But we aren't all compelled to do it as homosexuals are.

I have shoplifted once. But I'm not compelled to do all the time like a klepto.
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Oh, you were expressing ethical relativism (morality is an agreed upon set of rules); I was just asking you if it was possible that a minority of people can hold a moral truth against others.

And I was pointing out that the drive that compels one race or religion to eradicate another religion or race is different that the natural human species aversion to the abnormality that homosexuality is. There is a huge difference.


In fact using the Jews and racism is using geographic relativism, since there are entire countries where humans have no problem with these people. Not so homosexuality. There are countries that have forced by law people to "accept" homosexuality. But if you have to have a law, there's a problem.


I actually don't see that much of a difference at all; it's just that one was taken to the extreme. Both acts of discrimination are fueled by a sense of detest against the said group. That is, homophobia and racism against Indians are very similar in that, the racist (or homophobe) uses differences (real or imagined) in the racist's favor and at the expense of the victim, by assigning value to those differences in order to dehumanize the victim and justify oppression.

Homophobia is bullshit. There is a distinct abnormality about homosexuality. It is species/world/humanity wide until recently. And even in the change, it wasn't brought about by a change in the people, it was "voted" by a representative group, which included homosexual activists. Isn't that like asking a group of pedophiles whether they are abnormal? That's bullshit. Racism against the Indian is infinitely different. The Indians didn't ask the Pilgrims to come to their land. They were invaded and eradicated from their indigenous country. How can you compare the two?

You see these differences pointed out by homophobes all the time (and usually they're imagined); including association of AIDS with gays, 'unnatural detestableness', dirty, immoral, unchristian, etc. Then of course the homophobe always assigns value to these differences (by stressing their 'backwardness' and moral inferiority) in order to justify the homophobe's injustice. Incidentally, such associations I listed above have been used in past and present racism against blacks and others in attempting to rationalize oppression.
And you can turn that around and say that the "homonormatives" always come up with the APA deeming them unpathogenic, they are a "normal" variation, they are "just like you", homosexuals have their own kinds of sex, etc.
So friggin what? There isn't a single biologic aspect that "normalizes" homosexuality that can't be transferred to at the very least zoophilia that would also normalize it as well.
As far your associations with racism against blacks, that racism wasn't brought about by "natural' circumstances. Black people were brought to this country as slave labor. An entire country was built on the premise that black people were inferior. That was taught. The species-wide aversion to homosexuality is a natural reaction to a distinct human aberration. Just as the other sexual deviations.

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Irrelevant, both of these strawman examples are potentially infringing onto others; there's nothing harmful to others when two consenting adults of the same sex want to love each other and enjoy equality under the law.
So you would make prostitution and public nudity legal?

And how do you feel about sexual relations between close relatives who are consenting adults?

Or will you try and dismiss these examples as "strawmen" too??

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Old 11-20-2007, 03:40 PM   #27 (permalink)
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And I was pointing out that the drive that compels one race or religion to eradicate another religion or race is different that the natural human species aversion to the abnormality that homosexuality is. There is a huge difference.
Wrong; racism is always thought to be a natural aversion to inferiority according to the racist. In this we find distinct parallels. Thus in the distinctions I made, not only are attitudes similar to the racist, but you could say homophobes are plagiarizing from the racist when they stress certain differences (AIDS, unnatural, unchristian, etc.).

Regardless if you think homosexuals are immoral in some sense or not, you can't deny the parallels you're making with the racist by assigning value to differences, and in turn using that value in an attempt at substantiating your discriminations.

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In fact using the Jews and racism is using geographic relativism, since there are entire countries where humans have no problem with these people. Not so homosexuality. There are countries that have forced by law people to "accept" homosexuality. But if you have to have a law, there's a problem.
You're just factually incorrect. Sexual identity is largely a force of western imperialism. Before our European ancestors embarked on their crusade to eradicate what you probably consider as barbaric unnatural cultures, many non-western (and indeed in some places pre-Medieval European) cultures generally considered homosexual acts as something some men do, not something they become. In other words, to the world gender and in turn sexuality is performative and in the west it is 'fixed' identity.

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Homophobia is bullshit. There is a distinct abnormality about homosexuality. It is species/world/humanity wide until recently. And even in the change, it wasn't brought about by a change in the people, it was "voted" by a representative group, which included homosexual activists. Isn't that like asking a group of pedophiles whether they are abnormal? That's bullshit. Racism against the Indian is infinitely different. The Indians didn't ask the Pilgrims to come to their land. They were invaded and eradicated from their indigenous country. How can you compare the two?
Wrong again. In fact, you have it backward; the simplistic and dualistic heterosexual vs. homosexual (as well as female vs. male) distinctions are actually pretty new in human history. Most indigenous cultures to some degree not only recognized what you would consider as "unconventional sexuality" but condoned its practice. Some even considered it holy; the Berdache in Native American cultures (practically continent wide) for example. Or the Hijra in Hindu cultures, which until the advent of western ideology (via imperialism) in India and Pakistan, were considered holy and following the ways of the gods. Hell, even in Oman, a Muslim country (a religion which you hold up as the poster child for persecution of homosexuality) the Xanith (trans or homosexual) can retain a legal status of male yet have a social role of women and partake in roles that would otherwise be forbidden for a man, and they can also serve as a prostitute.

I can compare the two because, as I have pointed out in detail in my last post, the thought process and the rationalizations are parallel. Incidentally, it was this colonial racism and ethnocentrism on the part of the Europeans in the Americas, that imported this idea of sexual identity onto the Native Americans, and alienated the Berdache. So not only do the two ideologies share the same tactics, but they have a history together.

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And you can turn that around and say that the "homonormatives" always come up with the APA deeming them unpathogenic, they are a "normal" variation, they are "just like you", homosexuals have their own kinds of sex, etc.
So friggin what? There isn't a single biologic aspect that "normalizes" homosexuality that can't be transferred to at the very least zoophilia that would also normalize it as well.
As far your associations with racism against blacks, that racism wasn't brought about by "natural' circumstances. Black people were brought to this country as slave labor. An entire country was built on the premise that black people were inferior. That was taught. The species-wide aversion to homosexuality is a natural reaction to a distinct human aberration. Just as the other sexual deviations.
I don't think you understand what I was attempting to convey. I was pointing out the similarities between homophobia and racism. That both rationalize their systems of oppression and discrimination in the same exact way.

And what do you mean racism wasn't brought about by natural circumstances? Surely, like the differences which you like to stress between the homosexual and the heterosexual, the differences between skin colors are natural. It's just that you're assigning value to the differences between sexuality rather than race. And, yes racism was a taught ideology, but society also reinforces the ideology of the alleged inferiority of homosexuality.
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[b][color=Red]So you would make prostitution and public nudity legal?
Pay attention, Gary, I said both of your examples are examples of acts which can potentially harm others. Therefore, legal persecution of these acts are more justifiable because they can be argued to protect the well-being of others; they don't dictate a personal morality onto two consenting adults only.

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And how do you feel about sexual relations between close relatives who are consenting adults?
Depends; obviously if their 'union' creates abnormalities (to put it in PC terms), then it is harming others now isn't it? If the relation is far enough whereby that wouldn't be a problem, then by all means the state shouldn't dictate to them where they should and shouldn't put their love.

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Oh, Gary, but they are. There is a difference between dictating a personal morality (a form of oppression) on consenting adults and requiring that people respect the well-being of others. I don't think you're able to make that distinction very well.
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Pay attention, Gary, I said both of your examples are examples of acts which can potentially harm others. Therefore, legal persecution of these acts are more justifiable because they can be argued to protect the well-being of others; they don't dictate a personal morality onto two consenting adults only.



Depends; obviously if their 'union' creates abnormalities (to put it in PC terms), then it is harming others now isn't it? If the relation is far enough whereby that wouldn't be a problem, then by all means the state shouldn't dictate to them where they should and shouldn't put their love.



Oh, Gary, but they are. There is a difference between dictating a personal morality (a form of oppression) on consenting adults and requiring that people respect the well-being of others. I don't think you're able to make that distinction very well.
So perhaps you could enlighten us as to how prostitution or public nudity harm others, when both activities involve consenting adults?

We already know that homosexual activity is the main cause of AIDS, so one could make the same argument about harm there.

We could also argue that promoting the "normality" of homosexuality is harmful to the moral fibre of the nation and its youth in particular.

Or do we have to abide by the definition of "harm" which a small minority wants to impose on us?
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[color=Red]So perhaps you could enlighten us as to how prostitution or public nudity harm others, when both activities involve consenting adults?
I was mainly speaking of prostitution vis-a-vis subjugation and in many instances a forced dehumanizing exploitation of women. Perhaps you could argue in favor of instances of true consent; though I personally can't imagine what women would sell their bodies if they didn't have to. But of course, in the same breath you can argue that in the same way capitalism is the subjugation and dehumanizing exploitation of the worker; but then again I am a socialist (but that's a different debate all together) so I guess there's no inconsistency there at least for me.

The suppression of public nudity, however, is harder to justify. I personally don't see any need for a law against it, but then again maybe I'm just a little more European in tradition than most Americans. Though it is debated by many that public exposure harms the psychological health of others, especially children, and I can see that when people make a big deal about it and maybe (like homophobes) they're severely insecure then yes they could be harmed. Likewise you can argue that the public, which is seen as a party involved in "public nudity", didn't consent; though I would attack such a position in some regards.

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We already know that homosexual activity is the main cause of AIDS, so one could make the same argument about harm there.
"We 'know' that AIDS originated with the negro" says the racist.

You know nothing Gary. Most experts who examine the evidence concur that AIDS originated from wild species of primate, to which they also concur that it was transferred to humans via hunting or otherwise direct contact.

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We could also argue that promoting the "normality" of homosexuality is harmful to the moral fibre of the nation and its youth in particular.
You could argue that the condoning of homosexual practices is harmful to the survival of your particular brand of 'morality' which has been used as a justification of different oppressions throughout history.
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