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Old 05-20-2008, 05:12 PM   #51 (permalink)
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they are hardly red herrings - they are called EQUAL GOVERNMENT PROTECTIONS
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Old 05-20-2008, 05:23 PM   #52 (permalink)
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they are hardly red herrings - they are called EQUAL GOVERNMENT PROTECTIONS

So why aren't they available to single people, polygamists, guys who shack up with multiple girls, left-handers, redheads, incestuous couples, etc etc?

And none of those minorities receive special protection from hate crime legislation either.

Attempts by homosexuals to hitch their wagon to "civil rights" have been exposed as sham for years.
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Old 05-20-2008, 05:24 PM   #53 (permalink)
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So why aren't they available to single people, polygamists, guys who shack up with multiple girls, left-handers, redheads, incestuous couples, etc etc?

And none of those minorities receive special protection from hate crime legislation either.

Attempts by homosexuals to hitch their wagon to "civil rights" have been exposed as sham for years.
you've had all these answered and/or refuted before

I'm not repeating myself again for you
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Old 05-20-2008, 05:26 PM   #54 (permalink)
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you've had all these answered and/or refuted before

I'm not repeating myself again for you
AKA damn I can't answer Gary's questions - again!
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So why aren't they available to single people, polygamists, guys who shack up with multiple girls, left-handers, redheads, incestuous couples, etc etc?

And none of those minorities receive special protection from hate crime legislation either.

Attempts by homosexuals to hitch their wagon to "civil rights" have been exposed as sham for years.
This is what I have come to truly appreciate about you Gary. You cut to the chase and have clear vision for the real issues.

The thing is that homosexual people can do whatever they want. It is when they choose to exploit their sex lives and make themselves a special group based on their sexual behavior that they are in error.
I would say as much if any heterosexual wanted to have legislation or civil rights given on the basis of their sexual behavior too.

I believe in equality and justice for all. And though I cannot give, out from my own convictions, a stamp of approval on the practices of homosexuality, I do not believe that we can or even ought to attempt to legislate morality. BUT, that said, we also cannot legislate "rights" based on sexual behavior.

Don't lobby for what takes place in the bedroom!

Those who are militant about their sexuality are most likely quite uncomfortable with it or they would just get on with being who they are, rather than seeking affirmation from the government and from the public.

Now all this said, I was not counted a troll ever by those who are conservative when I was mouthing liberal vomit. And oh how they(the libs) all lauded my posts and "loved" me...I am the same person but have re-thought life and morality and spirituaity. I am again writing with my convictions. And yet as soon as I write from the conservative base, those same folk who "loved" me previously are mean and rude and even hurl vulgarities and personal insults to me. How can THEY truly be asking for tolerance and acceptance, when they cannot show it?

I have not written mean and unkind things, only strong with the beliefs I have come to embrace. If my strength of conviction can turn someone into such a lowly sniper and show themselves so intolerant, I would have to say they feel threatened and have yet to know one thing about this tolerance that they want everyone to show to them.

I came back to post here by an email invitation to come back. And I am glad for that. And I am proud to call Fx and Gary my friends. They both care for the preservation of our freedoms, of our people and of our culture.

I came back and in honesty shared my beliefs. But to me, a forum is not for quarreling. It is for making friends. Those who are my friends will always be...those who are not, have hurled all kinds of drama, gossip, and slander about me and/or against me.

And if I have written with such a lack of maturity and intellect, I am surprised that I was taken seriously enough for such wise and grown-up people to show themselves throwing hissy fits and demonstrating their lack of control and how truly easily undone and undignified they are.

By showing such, you have demonstrated that you are not above committing hate crimes yourselves...ummm, Tristan.

So try practicing the golden rule and live peaceably and quiet lives. The first way to win anyone to your thought processes is to show respect for the opposition. You error gravely.

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I'm quite respectful to you and I think I always have been. I disagree with you, though. And I don't understand what it is that makes people think that the gay activists are trying to get special treatment. They are seeking to be treated the same as straight people in the eyes of the law and in the protection afforded to us in the Constitution, and that is for all of us, not just men, or whites, or straights, or whatever. It doesn't matter whether you personally agree with their morality as long as they are not victimising anyone.
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The fact is there is a huge body of work dealing with the homosexual affliction, what causes it and how it can be treated.
there is. but it is entirely informed by religious dogma. fiocus on the family is hardly rigorous science.

there is no mainstream scientific literature that argues homosexuality is an illness or abnormality. there is plenty of literature that argues it has a biological origin, that the phenomena is advantageous, that it is entirely normal and healthy for those who are gay and entirely normal and healthy for their families and society.

as i said at the beginning of the thread, the major argument against recognition of gay relationships is to say they are abnormal relationships held by abnormal people. this is false. so stop saying it.

the literature i have presented here is a broad selection from numerous unrelated and international sources. it is not the official line of the APA or any other group, it is not a grand conspiracy of gay activists, it is not subject to censorship or any other editing other than that required to confirm facts. the opinion that homosexuality is healthy and normal is held by people working in the field universally. it is their opinion because it is the only intelligent way to interpret the evidence.

the other argument against gay relationships is that they are against God. this is why the literature that argues for reparative therapy and against gay marriage is headed by church affiliated groups like focus on the family. they are pushing their religious ideology and trying to dress it up as science. they are entitled to voice their opinion like everyone else, but they need to start being honest and admit that their opinion is based on their interpretation of the bible, not the evidence.
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there is. but it is entirely informed by religious dogma. fiocus on the family is hardly rigorous science.

there is no mainstream scientific literature that argues homosexuality is an illness or abnormality. there is plenty of literature that argues it has a biological origin, that the phenomena is advantageous, that it is entirely normal and healthy for those who are gay and entirely normal and healthy for their families and society.

as i said at the beginning of the thread, the major argument against recognition of gay relationships is to say they are abnormal relationships held by abnormal people. this is false. so stop saying it.

Why should I stop saying it when it's patently true?






the literature i have presented here is a broad selection from numerous unrelated and international sources. it is not the official line of the APA or any other group, it is not a grand conspiracy of gay activists, it is not subject to censorship or any other editing other than that required to confirm facts. the opinion that homosexuality is healthy and normal is held by people working in the field universally. it is their opinion because it is the only intelligent way to interpret the evidence.

the other argument against gay relationships is that they are against God. this is why the literature that argues for reparative therapy and against gay marriage is headed by church affiliated groups like focus on the family. they are pushing their religious ideology and trying to dress it up as science. they are entitled to voice their opinion like everyone else, but they need to start being honest and admit that their opinion is based on their interpretation of the bible, not the evidence.
So how can you explain all the homosexuals who have been cured of their homosexuality and are now able to lead normal lives?

I'm surprised you have such an intolerant, closed-minded imperious attitude on this topic.
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So how can you explain all the homosexuals who have been cured of their homosexuality and are now able to lead normal lives?
It's called perpetrating a fraud.
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Any links. And before I read any of them...
i said that you will need access to a library with an institutional subscription to access these. i am guessing you do not have such access. but still feel able to argue with those people who do.

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Which one actually says that humans are supposed to be gay. A person with one leg shorter than the other can make it in society, but that doesn't mean that it's normal to have uneven legs. That's why they make the funny shoes.
nobody is suggesting you are supposed to be gay. all mammalian populations have variety, it is essential to their survival. straight is the most common variety of sexuality in the human species. it is your variety and it is healthy. but the other varieties are equally healthy and although they may be less common, they are no less normal.

nobody is suggesting you are supposed to be white. all mammalian populations have variety, it is essential to their survival. pale skin is the most common variety of skin tone. it is my variety, and it is healthy. but the other varieties are equally healthy and although they may be less common, they are no less normal.

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A sterile person can have the same relationship as any other person doesn't mean sterility is a human evolved trait. It's a disorder. Homosexuality is a socially viable disorder. That doesn't mean that humans are supposed to be gay, just that it doesn't make them fruitcakes.
just makes then f**ked up, right?

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A person with vitiligo has nothing wrong with him except he is turning white. Not a big deal really. But still considered aberrant.
i don't argue. but vitiligo is abberant when compared to how that individual should be on the basis of their physiology, genetics and evolution. homosexuality is totally normal when compared to the individual.

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So while your collection of resources is quite impressive, they still don't show how a human/mammal/complex life form has evolved to be gay.
yes they do. read them. oh, you cannot. ok, try listening to those people who have read them then. wait a minute, they disagree with you !!

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At best, if I were to seek them out and read them, they would probably find a homosexual situation and try to find a way to conform to some resemblance of "normal". And that is bullshit. If it were normal, you would be able to start at need, then the instinct, then the facilitation.
which is what some of them do. you are fishing for a reason to disregard the evidence.

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For example Bonobos...
Perineal swelling, intermenstrual cycle, and female sexual behavior in bonobos (Pan paniscus).
Am J Primatol. 2006 Apr;68(4):333-47.
PMID: 16534808 [PubMed - indexed for

also have sexual practices with their kids. Does that mean humans are biologically predisposed to pedophilia, or are some bonobos just as f'd up as some humans?
this reference was included to illustrate the fact that sexuality is far more complex than you would think. and that sexual behaviour is about more than reproduction. also, it is well recognised in the life sciences that very closely related species frequently share lots of features. it is not proof by any means, but suggestive. the sexuality of one primate species is likely to be similar to the sexuality of a close biological relative. we are very similar (although not identical) to bonobos in almost every way, why not sexually?
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