Defending the Truth

No problem hon. Hope it works for you.

If it doesn't, find something else that he likes collecting that will encourage him to use the potty. If stickers isn't his thing, and say collecting hot wheels is...try that. Every time he poops in the potty, give him a new hot wheel, or whatever his hobby/facination is in a similar line of thought.

I know for my nephew, it was bouncy balls from the candy/toy dispensers at the store...So my sister kept quarters, and if he went poop in the potty they went to the vending machine to get him a bouncy ball at the store...Now you can buy them by the package in your store's party favor isle...

It's just a matter of figuring out the 'trick' that gets his intrest. And it's alot healthier for them then sweets. ROTFLMAOL!!!

Oh, and I'm sure you already know this but I'll add it anyways, make a big deal out of it when he does it and recieves his award. I think between the praise and toy, it makes them feel as if they've won the lottery and encourages them to win the 'lottery' again. ROTFLMAOL!!!

Come on fellas...You know anything over a handful or a mouthful is just plain wastefull....

If I buy that boy one more hot wheels car...... but I'm gonna take that advise........

As for the boob thing, when I'm dating, the bigger the better, but for my wife, I agree that you wanna keep em manageable. Gravity concerns and all.

Gravity affects small ones as much as big ones...It's just not as noticeable. And the one's it affects the most is those that don't wear bras for support as often. Or not at all. There's also the having babies and stretchmarks some women get on their breasts...Without support or exercises designed to firm up the breast area, they will tend to sag as a woman get's older...

Still to me, on a personal level, rather then thinking it's unattractive, be happy that you've lived long enough for time to be showing. Them there sagging breasts and stretchmarks are battle scars. ROTFLMAOL!!!

As a male, I like my wifes little boobies battle scar free, thank you. Luckily I caught her young before she messed her skin up in tanning booths so at 27 she still has the body of an 18 year old even after having our son. Skin is clear as a bell with no sunspot freckly things that many mid-20's white women who get too much sun have. Her friends hate her.

Does she know you talk about her like that?

I don't know if you mean it that way or not, but you come off as talking about her like she was some kind of Stepford wife you programmed.

Blunt honesty comes across that way sometimes. But if you know what you are looking for, no point denying it when you find it. And if I were to program a woman, my wife would probably be what I would get.

Ali, I'm at odds with FX and other "boobie men" on this one. I agree with you.
Big boobies just don't do it for me.

Boobies do it for me, the "big" part is optional.

FX..
Like you, I believe in being honest with myself -- and with women -- about my need for physical attraction in a relationship. Although I don't think my "standards" are quite as strict as yours. My "ideal" woman has a compact, athletic frame, dark hair and dark eyes. But that doesn't mean that if I had the choice between a woman who looked like that and a tall, willowy blonde who matched me more personality-wise, that I would reject the blonde just because of looks. I would pick the better mental/spiritual match.

Plus you have to consider, 27 is still pretty damn young. What will your wife look like at 47? 57? And we men have to accept that was we age, our tits will start to sag too...lol.. so is it fair to expect perfection from our women?

I think boob jobs are almost always more risky than they are worth.. and I do wonder how much of it is driven by women worrying about what men think of them.