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Old 05-05-2008, 11:49 AM   #31 (permalink)
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Judging from the less than gentlemanly exchanges here, it appears you have more than one man "dreaming" about you, CF.

I imagine it won't be long until they start complaining about how you are "heartless," "cruel," and "manipulating" their "weakness."
Hey Cyn, I think you are hott too! I don't care if you are a lesbian. "Dreaming" never hurt anybody (I think).
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Old 05-05-2008, 11:53 AM   #32 (permalink)
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I'm not offended at all.

I don't consider remarks you can walk away from to be sexual harassment. To my mind, sexual harassment is about power. No one here has power over anyone else. If someone says something that makes you uncomfortable, you can simply ignore them with no loss. Your job isn't on the line. Your freedom isn't on the line. Neither is your safety.

I have quite a few people who object to my photos. Oh well, that's their problem.

I post the photos for two reasons. One, to show that a woman isn't necessarily 'over the hill' once she's over 40, and because peoples reactions to them give me a quick insight into their personalities. Well, three reasons. Nudity just doesn't bother me.
Your pics are very tasteful and I thank you for posting them. I don't think they're the least bit obscene. The fact you're over 40 makes them all the better to me. Your hubby is a lucky man.
Old 05-05-2008, 11:55 AM   #33 (permalink)
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What could you possibly accuse me of wanting from you, except for you to get a freaking clue, and for you to get your head outta your ass!
You are right. I bet you get really horny when you look at a pic of me though
Old 05-05-2008, 02:34 PM   #34 (permalink)
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Gary's constant whining about how weak he is and how mean women are for not protecting him from himself is about the biggest turn off I could think of.

No surprise that when they typical whiney female "I'm a weak oppressed victim" lines are fed back you immediately "do a 180"!


More than a third of middle- and high-school students may be victims of sexual harassment by their classmates, a new report shows.

The problem of sexual harassment from peers — which can include name-calling and unwanted touching in hallways and classrooms — is often largely dismissed as normal student behavior by school officials. However, the emotional toll of sexual harassment by school kids appears to be even worse than physical bullying, according to new research published this month in the journal Sex Roles.

Boys and girls reported equal levels of harassment, but girls and sexual minorities were far more upset by it, suffering from lower self-esteem, poorer mental and physical health, and more trauma symptoms.

Sexual harassment by classmates can be both physical and verbal. Walking through school hallways or in classrooms, girls said they must fend off boys reaching out and squeezing their breasts or grabbing their crotch or bottom. But girls also verbally harass each other, making lewd comments and writing sexually-charged allegations on Web pages or in text messages.

Openly gay and lesbian students, as well as students perceived to be gay, are victimized at much higher rates. In the latest study, 70 percent of gay and lesbian students reported that they had been sexually harassed at school.

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Old 05-05-2008, 02:48 PM   #35 (permalink)
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No surprise that when they typical whiney female "I'm a weak oppressed victim" lines are fed back you immediately "do a 180"!




Whining that you are too weak to resist women, and sexual harassment are two different things.

The latter is unwanted verbal or physical contact of a sexual nature that one is unable to stop.

The former is simply your own weakness. Unless of course these women are raping you.

If they are, I suggest you call the police. If all they are doing is offering, and you can't resist, I suggest you work on developing some self discipline or move back in with your mommy. I'm sure she will be glad to protect you, since you seem unable to do so.


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Whining that you are too weak to resist women, and sexual harassment are two different things.

The latter is unwanted verbal or physical contact of a sexual nature that one is unable to stop.

The former is simply your own weakness. Unless of course these women are raping you.

If they are, I suggest you call the police. If all they are doing is offering, and you can't resist, I suggest you work on developing some self discipline or move back in with your mommy. I'm sure she will be glad to protect you, since you seem unable to do so.



I'll remember that line next time you and the sisterhood are moaning about being "oppressed" by cruel men and complaining that you don't have equality.

As soon as the same argument is made against you your hypocrisy is exposed for all to see!

Clearly prostitutes want verbal and physical contact, that's why they become prostitutes - combined with greed and laziness.

So how can you claim that they are somehow being oppressed and objectified by men?

At least the DC Madam won't be manipulating any more men.
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I'll remember that line next time you and the sisterhood are moaning about being "oppressed" by cruel men and complaining that you don't have equality.

As soon as the same argument is made against you your hypocrisy is exposed for all to see!

Clearly prostitutes want verbal and physical contact, that's why they become prostitutes - combined with greed and laziness.

So how can you claim that they are somehow being oppressed and objectified by men?

At least the DC Madam won't be manipulating any more men.
So to you, a woman being denied a job for which she is qualified simply because she is female, and you being unable to say no to pussy, are the same thing?

Let me put this bluntly gary: You're a weakling. A sniveling milquetoast of a mouse who would rather bitch and moan that society won't change so that you don't have to.

Society discriminates against many types of people. Women and minorities being the most popular.

Society is NOT discriminating against YOU. Society is not required to change itself to compensate for YOUR personal problem.

There are two categories of people who need general protection from society. Children and the mentally disabled. These people generally do not have the ability to act in their best interest.

Since you admit that you don't either, I suggest you do what is done for the children and disabled. Hire yourself a caregiver. Someone who will accompany you when you go out of your house and protect you from your own weaknesses. Perhaps if you can get a shrink to label you 'mentally disabled' you can get the government to pay for it.


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Old 05-05-2008, 04:33 PM   #38 (permalink)
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So to you, a woman being denied a job for which she is qualified simply because she is female, and you being unable to say no to pussy, are the same thing?


That is a remarkably irrational, unsubstantiated conclusion to draw, even for a woman.




Let me put this bluntly gary: You're a weakling. A sniveling milquetoast of a mouse who would rather bitch and moan that society won't change so that you don't have to.

Society discriminates against many types of people. Women and minorities being the most popular.

There ya go again blaming "society". BTW I'm English which means I'm a minority too.



Society is NOT discriminating against YOU. Society is not required to change itself to compensate for YOUR personal problem.

But "society" has to change to accommodate YOUR personal problems - the fact that most women cannot compete with most men?

Do you ever read the nonsense you write?




There are two categories of people who need general protection from society. Children and the mentally disabled. These people generally do not have the ability to act in their best interest.

Since you admit that you don't either, I suggest you do what is done for the children and disabled. Hire yourself a caregiver. Someone who will accompany you when you go out of your house and protect you from your own weaknesses. Perhaps if you can get a shrink to label you 'mentally disabled' you can get the government to pay for it.



Wow you are really angry!

I don't need a caregiver I AM a caregiver thanks. I take care of myself and my family and I compete for everything I have.

Unlike a woman I don't have the luxury of sitting in a corner weeping about "discrimination" and what a victim I am.

Like most men I just get on with it.
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Wow you are really angry!

I don't need a caregiver I AM a caregiver thanks. I take care of myself and my family and I compete for everything I have.

Unlike a woman I don't have the luxury of sitting in a corner weeping about "discrimination" and what a victim I am.

Like most men I just get on with it.
Of course you see gender roles as black and white. What else would we expect from you, Gary?
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Old 05-05-2008, 05:12 PM   #40 (permalink)
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Of course you see gender roles as black and white.

As a self-confessed bisexual wiccan who is sympathetic to gender identity issues, certainly nobody could accuse you of that.
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