I had three points, and presume you meant the last one, ignoring the other two.

Thank goodness we do not have abortion clinics (or anything else) being blown up daily. But truly, killing is killing, and the people are dead, and anything they might have contributed to humanity is lost. Their families and friends mourn. Having lost my mom to cancer back in August, I know how that feels somewhat. Had she been murdered, I do not know how I would have reacted.

I do not have a belief as I have not talked with any of them.

So, in other words you really don't know why they blow themselves up, but you don't accept my reason why they blow themselves up. Why?

I like to get my information from the source.

That is kind of an ambiguous statement. Do you mean the source of suicide bombers or what? I'm not sure what you mean.

I don't accept your reason for why suicide bombers blow themselves up because I do not know for certain that it comes from the source of that information - the individual in question. And sometimes I think even that source is not likely to tell the real reason they are blowing themselves up unless you actively listen to them and get to the heart of the reason they joined a terrorist group to begin with.

So you are not sure that terrorist bombers blow themselves up to kill othere to please Allah and they are told to do that by muslim clerics?

Do they really do it to please Allah, or do they do it to please themselves or their higher-ups in the organization?

The only garrenty they have to get to heaven is to die a marter

So you are saying/assuming there are no secular reasons for someone to join a terrorist group...