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Old 01-20-2008, 10:45 AM   #21 (permalink)
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Actually, I think that's where "morality" and religion and believing in something become important.
I understand NOW the importance of chastity and morals. It's much easier and FUN to try to get laid as much as possible. But as with most things fun, they aren't necessarily the best way to go.

We both know as men, the playboy mansion and that lifestyle looks like the best thing since sliced bread. But as a happily married man with a wife who I know and trust looks at me as more than a walking wallet, that's a much better/consistent/persistent feeling than squeezing on a big set of silicone boobs that are only there because of what I have.
Not the point bro and you know it. You said you seriously regret all those trysts with other women - I say they are nice memories for you. Don't get me wrong, I really believe you are happy with the relationship you have with your wife and realize the value of it. I'm just not buying this "seriously regret" horseshit. After all, wasn't all that before you got married? If not, I'll take it all back.
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Well, for me, I have learned something here.

Women's Issues ARE Men's Issues. So perhaps the idea of having a Forum Exclusively for Women is so much horse hockey.

Fx, I know you will answer Pen's post for yourself. But I can chime in here with equal rights. I think that you are capable of giving your wife love, real love by the intimacy of sex. Cos you see it as more than just so much pent up sexual energy to release. You have, by the love you know for your wife, extolled sex and count it precious.

Your regrets demonstrate that.

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Old 01-20-2008, 10:55 AM   #23 (permalink)
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Not the point bro and you know it. You said you seriously regret all those trysts with other women - I say they are nice memories for you. Don't get me wrong, I really believe you are happy with the relationship you have with your wife and realize the value of it. I'm just not buying this "seriously regret" horseshit. After all, wasn't all that before you got married? If not, I'll take it all back.
From that angle you are right...I don't "regret" having those trysts. What I "regret" is that they cloud my feelings a bit for her. I remember the woman that I first felt "close" to in a way beyond just sexual gratification. And I remember how that felt the first time. And I hate my heart has been ripped into pieces more than couple times. She's never been used, never been through a rough breakup, never worried about if that guy is gonna call back. I envy her for that. Well not the guy calling back part....LOL

Know what I mean?

eta...In another way...Whoring around is fun and easy...But when you find the "right" woman, you see exactly what the Bible was warning you about about the fornication and crap like that.

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